I can’t help but feel a little hopeful after Barack Obama became the president-elect. While most of us were celebrating this historical moment, there were, of course, those drowning their sorrows in what seemed to be doomsday. I’m not a Republican. Far from it. I enjoyed wearing my Obama shirts three days in a row during election week. I’m as Democrat as they come, but I can understand why someone can be Republican. It may have come from my years as a high school debater, living with my conservative ‘-‘- occasionally bordering on racist ‘-‘- grandparents, or from my core belief that it’s more important to learn than to be right. Sometimes it’s easy to be completely wrapped up in our beliefs, especially during times of elections and times when we seem to be the majority. We forget how it feels to be in the other person’s shoes because our shoes are glued to one side of the spectrum. I’m guilty of this prejudice as well; I was one of the first to say that if John McCain got elected I was moving to another hemisphere. But then, as I realized that some of my closest friends and people I deeply respect didn’t necessarily believe the same things I did, I took a deep breath and jumped into their model of the world. I agree that we can never fully walk in someone else’s moccasins. But if we use that as an excuse to keep us from respecting someone else’s world view, we are no better than the extremists who terrorize other people because they decided to stop wearing a cross, decided to speak another language or decided to show a bit of cleavage. Take a moment to see things from your polar opposite’s point of view. I mean really feel how they feel, speak how they speak and see things how they see it. Realize that not one person in this world can be completely right or completely wrong. Realize that people aren’t just their opinions or their behaviors. See things from the outside and from a place of curiosity where you invest no emotion in it, and then you can really reach a point of compromise. At the end of the day, we all really want the same thing, and it’s also a lot easier to convince someone of your ideas when you see it from their side of the table. If it is truly time for our world to grow beyond a place where we decide someone else’s capabilities, then it begins with us ‘-‘- the people who shaped this election ‘-‘- to step up and, as hippie-esque as it sounds, step beyond our limited perceptions and our ‘in group’ and ‘out group’ evolutionary trappings and see the world through someone else’s eyes. Even if it’s just the roommate, family member, friend, professor, frenemy, enemy, terrorist or whomever we’re having a conflict with. It is time that we realize that what happens to us is not just about the individual getting by, but our interconnected global society flourishing as a whole.