Content warning: This article contains mention of suicide.
BU Parents United, a Facebook group for parents of Boston University students, is spearheading an effort to grant an honorary degree to Georgia Dray, a BU student lost to suicide in 2022.
The effort began after Dray’s passing on March 27 and was initially dismissed under the leadership of former BU President Robert Brown. Last week’s inauguration of BU President Melissa Gilliam, who is known for her research on the health and well-being of young people, has revitalized the movement.
“It would have spoken volumes – that Georgia meant as much to her university as it meant to her,” wrote Georgia Dray’s mother, Sherry Dray in a Facebook comment.
BU had instituted an official process of issuing students posthumous degrees in fall 2020. The policy states students “must have been in good academic standing and within one semester of completing their coursework” to receive a degree.
Dray was a rising senior and member of the Psy Chi International Honor Society, according to a petition started by BU Parents United to give Dray an honorary degree. When BU denied the degree request, a community rallied around her family.
“Many Terriers reached out to us and wanted to do something special to remember her and the school didn’t want it,” said Alessandra Kellermann, founder of BU Parents United and a friend of Sherry Dray.
BU Spokesperson Colin Riley declined to comment.
After feeling dismissed by former President Brown, Kellermann said she and BU Parents United hope President Gilliam will now consider an honorary degree for Dray. Kellermann emailed her a letter on behalf of BU Parents United on Tuesday advocating for the petition.
BU Parents United also aims to work with Gilliam to improve mental health support on campus, which was previously dismissed under Brown’s leadership, Kellermann said.
Julia Lloyd, a member of BU Parents United, said she believes that the honorary degree “would be helpful to her parents to know that she’s not forgotten … that we still think of them often.”
Kellermann said BU Parents United believes that if the University had been more transparent about Dray’s passing, then other students would feel more comfortable addressing their mental health.
“There’s this whole idea of kids feeling like they don’t have the ability to reach out to somebody,” said Tracy Lynn McElhenie, a member of BU Parents United who shared that her own son has also faced mental health issues.
Lloyd said several times parents in the Facebook group have shared that they have flown to Boston to be with their children to help them through mental health problems.
Kara Cattani, director of Behavioral Medicine for Student Health Services, wrote in an email to The Daily Free Press that BU offers short-term individual counseling, crisis services and referral services through its Behavioral Medicine, Sexual Assault Response Prevention and Health Promotion & Prevention departments.
Kellermann, who works as a mental health advocate, has been advocating for BU to teach students about 988, the suicide and crisis lifeline. She said that under Brown’s leadership, the proposal to promote the lifeline on posters across campus was denied.
“There’s still that old fear that if you talk about suicide, it’s going to trigger more, and that’s not correct,” Kellermann said.
The petition for Dray’s degree is still active and currently has more than one thousand signatures. BU Parents United raised funds for a memorial garden in Dray’s name, which was built in her parents backyard.
“I think that by the way the university handled it, it was as if Georgia never existed,” Kellermann said. “That was very painful.”
CORRECTION: a previous version of this article included Kellermann stating that Riley said the family didn’t want anybody talking about Dray’s passing. Riley never confirmed this to be true. The updated article reflects this change.
Thank you for writing this article and giving a voice to Georgia Dray’s family, friends, professors and fellow students.
May President Gilliam award an honorary degree to her. BU administration needs to educate the students about the mental health hotline.
Thank you for this thoughtful piece on Georgia Dray and her love of BU despite her short life and tragic end to her life.
We believe President Gilliam and the Board of Trustees will honor this as she understands the message this sends to all terriers and alumni at Boston University .
Every life matters . Georgia mattered. If you are hurting, please reach out because life isn’t always fair or easy. We all struggle at different times. Please call or text 988 anytime day or night to talk to someone or to ask how to help a friend or loved one. You are not alone. YOU MATTER. This is the national hotline for anyone emotionally troubled and we are in this together.
Excellent article as usual DFP! Thank you for sharing!
As both a proud alumna of Boston University and the parent of a current freshman, I stand in full support of Georgia Dray receiving an honorary degree from BU. Georgia’s legacy as a student committed to academic excellence and her courageous fight against brain cancer exemplify the strength, perseverance, and character that BU instills in its community. Recognizing her with an honorary degree would not only honor her memory but also reflect the values we hold dear as Terriers—compassion, determination, and the pursuit of justice.
I urge the university to continue its commitment to inclusivity and to honor Georgia.
Sincerely,
Marianne
BU Class of 1998
Parent of BU Class of 2028