Call me a prude, but I think it is inappropriate for Boston University to offer condoms in the dormitories. The purpose of having on-campus housing is to provide a residential environment that supports the University’s academic mission: the dorm is a place where students can sleep and study. Of course, I recognize that there are many extraneous activities going on in the dorms as well. Some students, for example, host parties, but the University does not distribute beer-cozies during orientation. Some students may even use illegal drugs, but resident assistants do not run needle-exchange programs. So why, when some students choose to have sex in their dorm rooms, should the University provide condoms?

Some would say it’s a matter of convenience. Really? Condoms are available for purchase at Campus Convenience stores in West Campus, the Student Village, Warren Towers, the GSU, and Kenmore Square. There are also two CVS stores and a 7-Eleven on campus and two 24-hour supermarkets within easy walking distance. To put that into perspective, there are four times as many places to buy condoms on campus as there are places to buy postage stamps.

I also do not buy the argument that offering condoms in the dorms is a component of an effective sex-education program. BU can teach students about the importance of safe sex without actually handing out condoms in the dorms. I agree with Dr. McBride that the University should not expect its students to remain abstinent. However, I believe that sex educators ought to make it clear that abstinence is often preferable, and that students should not take the decision to have sex lightly. Providing condoms in the dormitories subverts this message by abetting students who neglect to plan ahead. This invariably will lead some students to make impetuous and imprudent choices that they may come to regret.

I first came to Boston University in 1998, and every year since then I have heard the Student Union demand that administrators treat students like adults. In requesting such treatment, however, students must realize that along with the rights and privileges of adulthood come many responsibilities. I do not think it is unreasonable for the University to expect that students who choose to have sex should exercise the maturity and forethought to obtain their own prophylactics, just like any other adult.

Brian M. Sirman, GRS ’12